I happened across a television show where the host was trying to find her true love. This is the second season after her first "true love" didn't work out for her. Each episode the possible lovers competed in games to prove just how far they would go for a shot at love. When the host had finally made her decision about who she wanted to share her life with, she was only disappointed to hear that the love wasn't mutual. "What am I doing wrong?" was the question from the host. Our culture has become consumed with instant gratification that we rely on internet match sites and game shows rather than finding love the old fashion way. And then we ask why it just didn't work out the way we wanted and we continue believing the lies that the enemy feeds us about our inabilities, our shortcomings and how no one will love us because we have messed up too much to be loved. Isn't the answer simple enough? God calls us to love Him first. Maybe when we realize that and choose Him as our first true love, then our life would be more balanced and better aligned. I have a long way to go!